#6สิ่งที่หมอเด็กคิดว่าตัวเองรู้ก่อนที่ตัวเองจะกลายเป็นแม่
1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
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1.#วันแรกที่พาลูกกลับบ้าน_เป็นวันที่แย่มากจริงๆ
Hormones or whatever. But the doctor found that it was then.
The brain is blank. Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep? Where do you sleep
How to breastfeed in the middle of the night? How to do it? (Surgical wound is hurt)
I remember sitting here crying... confused.
Why are you crying... Grandma is confused. Husband is confused.
Doctor thinks it's because of the thought
I'm a pediatric doctor. I can handle it
So it makes us careless
We never prepared a house preparation, a place to place.
And most importantly, we never prepared ourselves.
Even tho it's been so long...
I still remember my failures until now.
2.#การให้ลูกเข้าเต้าไม่ยาก_แต่มัน_โคตรยาก
Before having a baby.
The doctor also has to teach the mother who just gave birth to bring the baby in the breast.
Gotta get the right poses
Gotta let the kids eat when they start signaling hungry.
If you speak theoretically and teach the doctor mother well done.
No lack of defects.
But when I put my own baby in my boobs.
What is this... Kid keeps pushing. Smoking face to face crying for hours.
Finally, doctor has to choose between
Let the baby cry because she is hungry.
But stand up to get into boobs
Or to be full to establish trust in this world.
According to psychology, kids who have studied.
Whether it's a splendid or not patient or an excuse that I want you to be a child to trust the world.
The mist is becoming the mother of a full pump.
And since then the doctor never said the word
#It's not difficult with any mother again.
Doctors say it's difficult, but if you intend to do it, you can do it. Smile to support
3.#สิ่งที่ตำราเลี้ยงเด็กเขียน_เค้าไม่ได้เขียนถึงลูกเราไง
After having a baby salad, a lot of stickiness to a textbook.
What the doctor is very upset about.
Sleep schedule and kid's milk meal
Kids will start sleeping long at 4-6 months old.
Let us practice to finish the late night milk.
REALLY!!!
At 4 months, my kid still wake up every 2-3 hours. At night. At night.
And after 6 months, the textbook doesn't tell us that when teeth grow.
Kids will hurt and wake up crying late night again.
At 8-12 months, when you play with fun, you can sleep and sleep all night long.
Some time find new talents in the middle of the day
Like know you can suck your toes and get excited. Get up to see toes show at 2 am.
The textbook is.... not wrong, but he didn't write about our kids..
Every child is different from birth.
4.#สังคมออนไลน์เป็นดาบสองคม
The doctor knows how to feel after having a baby.
When I was a social media mom that included those who had the same problems.
People who have passed that problem already.
It's like a guru to introduce a freshman.
There is good and bad because there is a new knowledge.
The doctor can't find a textbook read.
How to play nipples, how to treat nipples, white dot, etc.
Damn... Data lines like doctors who need to find textbooks, research readings, rely on these information.
The experienced one comes to tell.
Well it helps us a lot
But it's getting weird.... right where
There is a wrong knowledge set... It's dangerous.
But when someone comes to support me... this information will become.
A textbook for many more people
Which doctor has been in to fix information. Tell me the right thing.
The result is.... weak and lose.
Hey!... health safety information
#มันใช้ระบบโหวตไม่ได้
But doctors understand the group process.
So.. if you want to tell the right thing, you have to create your own space.
So I opened the page.. end.
And hopefully the knowledge from our profession that we want to share
Sincerely, it will be direct to mother and benefit children.
5.#การใช้ชีวิตอยู่กับเด็กทั้งวันทั้งคืน_เหมือนเราใช้ชีวิต #กับผู้หญิงก่อนประจำเดือนมาที่เมาเหล้า
I feel like I can't sleep.
Some scenes reflect us too.
When I'm a mother, I read psychology books.
Seriously reading child development textbook
A lot of parenting genre books.
So much for real
Doctor finds that... Reading helps us have good information. Ready for situations.
But the above information is
We need to develop our own positive thinking system.
Because when you have a negative emotion, it takes a positive energy to use.
If there were only theories in the head then.
But positive energy we don't have. We are irritated. We are upset.
We can't raise a positive child.... We can't control ourselves.
We must have a strong heart, but gentle, kind.
I have been raising kids for 5 years. I have found that I am very into Dharma
Because everything Buddha says is true and it's the solution to every problem.
6.#การเป็นแม่ไม่ได้หมายความว่า_เราต้องทิ้งความเป็นตัวเอง
There are some times when the doctor is suffering.
In fact, I am suffering because of my own expectations.
And suffering how other people will see us.
So many things that are polished with kids.
What we want you to be is not that it's good for you.
#แต่มันทำให้เราดูเป็นแม่ที่ดี
What a heavy thing to do with a 2-3 year old
I will choose the dress. Top pattern, bottom pattern, shirt, and neck.
We think it's not pretty....
If you focus on the kid, you are happy.
If you focus on us... wear this outfit.
Others must think that mother doesn't care about kids.
Here's a sample of the little things we often contradict with kids.
We will imagine the good mother that we think (go by ourselves) that society or people around expect us to be.
So we try to be that person.... but peak is
We tried so hard
But no commission to decide if it's done #good enough
I'm sad and confused. I almost forgot who I am.
Come back to settle down....
It's us, kids have to learn how we are.
Doctor can say that
Who wants to propose to doctor's daughter?
The doctor has to say that the daughter's husband is about to expect her daughter to be a housewife... you will be disappointed.
Because when he was a kid.
Mother is not a good example for him.
He always eats with rice with Amma's cooking.
The good thing is that he has a sense of humor and doesn't mind the mistake... he got it from mom 🤣🤣
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This is what the doctor wants to tell.
The doctor served as a pediatric doctor for 7 years before having a baby.
But just the first few months of parenting myself.
Make doctor #s̄ả think we know
Really we know very little about it.
.
Before being a mother, doctor is considered a good child doctor.
Textbook that pediatric doctor uses for exams all over the world. How about it?
The doctor recommended the mother to ask for counseling.
Because we also tell the information we know is right.
When I'm a mother, I'm a mother.... Doctor has learned that.
The numbers we hold firmly are just the average he chooses that information to be childish.
But in fact, each child is different.
.
The most important thing that a child doctor should give to a mother who asks for parenting advice.
Not a number that is the middle of data.
But it's a #encouragement, understanding of the problems he has to face.
And the power he receives will make him face his own problems.
.
If there are any new mothers who are not confident in childcare.
Doctor wants to confirm that everyone is.
And now my baby is 5 years old
The doctor still has to learn many things and still learning more every day.
.
Let's learn this together and doctor thinks that the page that doctor wants to open up.
Giving someone a benefit no more or less
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Dr. Pam
P.S. Child doctor in the article is the only doctor himself.
Doctor, other children may know more than doctors know.
And he may be better than the doctor.
Doctor thinks it's an experience sharing.Translated
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因為公幹要去15日總共8個國家,其間不斷爭取時間喺會議與食飯與工作與睡眠之間泵奶,仲要協調酒店餐廳公司將母乳雪冰,呢個project需要幾多人力物力,最重要係媽媽既愛!但到最後喺希斯路機場付諸流水,因規條需要棄掉500oz 冰奶!作為人奶媽,聽到都覺傷心!同時亦好佩服呢個媽媽為小孩悉心既安排!希望呢件事能夠引起關注,令下一個人奶媽唔需要有咁既對待!#breastfeeding #母乳 #人奶媽
I normally would not post something this personal, but I do not remember the last time I felt so justly upset.
An Open Letter to Aviation Security in Terminal 5 at Heathrow Airport:
Being a working mother is the hardest thing I’ve ever done. Trying to manage the logistics of drop-offs and pick-ups and conference calls and meetings and finding the time and energy to make sure both your family and work are getting ample amounts of your care and attention is both challenging and fulfilling, but mostly extremely exhausting and stressful. When you’re fortunate enough as I am to have a job that involves travel, it’s an exciting opportunity, but it comes with even more extreme challenges when you have kids – being away from them, managing care back home from afar, and in my case, figuring out how you’re going to feed your 8 month old breastfed baby while you’re required to be away for 15 days and travel to eight different cities. For months I pumped and froze milk during the day and in the middle of the night to feed my son with the hopes I would have enough to see him through my time away, but eventually I had to deal with the sense of failure I felt when I realized it wouldn’t be enough to nourish him while I traveled, and thus I would have to introduce formula. Formula is perfectly acceptable (I clearly give it to my son), but as we had established a good breastfeeding relationship, it was my first choice and priority. I had also breastfed my first son until a year, so I wanted to give my second son the same.
To help ease the personal guilt, I resolved to pump at every possible moment between my meetings, presentations, business lunches and dinners, taxis, flights, and long waits in airports. This meant pumping while sitting on toilets in public restrooms; stuffed in an airplane bathroom; in unsecured conference rooms, showers, and closets because certain office spaces didn’t have a place for a nursing mother – and then dealing with the humiliation when a custodial employee accidentally walked in on me. It meant having to talk about my personal matters (my nursing schedule) with my professional coworkers and my supervisor in order to sneak away to said closet or public bathroom – a discomfort I had to learn how to swallow if I was to supply my son with breast milk. It meant going to each hotel and convincing them to store my giant insulated bags of milk in their restaurant freezers to preserve it. It meant lugging this giant block of frozen breast milk through four countries, airports and security checkpoints and having them pull out every single ounce of breastmilk and use mildly inappropriate sign language to convey "breast" and "milk" so that they would let me through. Which they did. Every one of them. Except you.
You made me dump nearly 500oz of breastmilk in the trash.
You made me dump out nearly two weeks worth of food for my son.
I acknowledge my part in this equation. I should have looked up the Civil Aviation rule. You do not allow breastmilk on the plane if the mother is not traveling with her baby – a regulation in and of itself that is incredibly unfair and exclusionary in consideration of all of the other working mothers like me who are required at certain times to spend time away from their baby, but intend to continue to breastfeed them. That being said, more than 300oz of that milk was frozen. Solid. Like a rock. I was willing to let go of the liquid milk. But you also wanted the solid milk because it could “melt and become a liquid.”
I travel significantly for work and personal leisure. I have two small children and have breastfed them both, bringing frozen breastmilk on plane after plane after plane, including in countries with strict liquid laws. Never have I ever been asked to throw out the milk because it might at some future time become a liquid. In fact, in most of those locations, they simply test the liquid milk as well and let me take it ALL on, liquid or frozen, child or no child with me. The truth is that had I read the Civil Aviation rule regarding liquids, I still would not have checked the bag because by it’s very definition, a liquid is “not a gas or a solid.” And since the milk was frozen, it was by all technical definitions a solid, so I had no reason to believe that it wouldn’t meet your standards, as it had met the non-liquid standards of dozens of airports around the world on so many of my previous trips,, including four in the past week alone.
I offered to check it. But that wouldn’t work either according to you because I had crossed the border and the only way for me to check the bag now was to exit the airport and re-enter – which I was also willing to do. But you wouldn’t give me the milk back – because now it was a “non-compliant item” and needed to be confiscated. It was as if you were almost proud to deny me at every possible point of compromise. Despite my begging, pleading and even crying out of sheer shock and desperation for a solution (which you essentially scoffed at with annoyance), you treated me as if I was trying to smuggle liters of hydrogen peroxide onto the plane. There was no room for discussion; “it’s the law.”
And yet how many times have I not taken off my shoes or taken out my laptop or not put my liquids in a quart bag full of 3oz bottles or rather had WAY more than a quart bag full of 3oz bottles? I can’t even count the number of times I’ve seen people attempt to bring on a unique souvenir that is deemed a potential weapon and they’re sent back out to check it so they can keep it. It happens. A lot.
Airport security is extremely important – it is essential in the world’s current threat environment, and I'm deeply appreciative of the work done by thousands of aviation security workers at airports around the globe; but it’s not a production line, despite the perception. There is an important place for customer service, judgment and critical thinking, and there are moments that should be treated as opportunities to assist people in their travel when there is ample evidence that an individual or item isn’t a threat. I can say this because I've not only seen it, I've experienced it at many airports, domestic and international. Rules and procedures at airport security are rarely universally enforced because similar to police officers, a significant aspect of your job is public trust and engagement, which includes using your judgment regarding appropriate enforcement in complex situations. Such as a mother trying to bring food home for her baby. In fact, after I agreed to dump the liquid milk after being spoken to by a manager, I was asked by a different employee what to do with the milk, as if it was open for discussion. Apparently it wasn't clear to her off the bat, which leads me to believe there are exceptions made in similar situations in the past.
This wasn’t some rare bottle of wine or luxury perfume I was trying to negotiate as a carry on. This was deeply personal. This was my son’s health and nourishment. This was the money I would now need to spend buying formula that wasn’t necessary. This wasn’t tomorrow’s milk; it was two weeks worth of nutrition for my child. And it was the countless hours of my time, my energy, even my dignity in some instances, all driven by my willingness to go to any length to get my child what he needs that you dumped into the trash like a random bottle of travel shampoo and deemed a hazard, simply because I made the completely logical and scientifically supported assumption that a solid isn’t a liquid. And your absolute unwillingness to use professional judgment and customer service to make a reasonable exception in the face of equally reasonable circumstances is shameful.
If I acted irate, it’s because it was the only appropriate reaction I could muster. I now don’t have the option to solely breastfeed my son because I don’t have enough milk to supply him while I’m at work, despite all of my best efforts. Being a working mother and ensuring both my job and my child get exactly what they need is the hardest thing I’ve ever done, but you managed to make it nearly impossible in a single afternoon. Security is the priority, but it isn’t and shouldn’t be your only goal, and it certainly shouldn’t punish those you intend to protect. Beyond literally taking food from my child’s mouth, you humiliated me and made me feel completely defeated as a professional and a mother. I hope the next time you encounter another mom just trying to make it work and looking for a little help along the way, you consult your conscience (as well as a physical science textbook) and reconsider your options.
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